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I believe that food, music and sex are our three greatest pleasures.

Yet, I spent most of my life using them as a way to escape my pain rather than them be a source of pleasure. 

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ABOUT

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All I ever wanted was to feel a depth of connection & intimacy where I felt seen, accepted in my fullest expression and met in my desires and needs. 

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'All I ever wanted was to feel a depth of connection & intimacy where I felt seen, accepted in my fullest expression and met in my desires and needs.'

So Much changed!

FROM PAIN TO PLEASURE

I went from constantly stressed, emotional eating, chronic health problems and zero sexual aliveness. To finding peace & safety in my body & comfort in my own skin. I became able to process my emotions, regulate myself easily & stop avoiding difficult feelings in food & men. In doing so, I could access realms of pleasure and sensations like never before.

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self expression

I let go of the fear of being too much and just became myself. Being authentic freed up my energy. I started to attract people, places & opportunities to me. I had better orgasms, sexier dances, unleashed creativity & deeper fulfilment.

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no more partner pleasing

I found the confidence to speak up my needs, set boundaries & express desires in sex. No more worrying how he would react meant I could be myself and enjoy the peace and aliveness that came with that. 

realising my worth

I stayed in sexless and unhappy relationships because deep down I didn't feel enough. I thought 'Who else will love me?' Realising my worth meant I set boundaries, asked for my needs and stopped settling for less than I truly wanted. 

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I'm devoted to the path of sacred sexuality, tantra and feminine embodiment.

 

As an Intimacy Mentor, Tantric bodyworker, Orgasmic Chef, Energy Worker, Somatic Healer & Temple Priestess, I'm dedicated to creating a world with deeper connection, profound love and meaningful intimacy.

I guide others to embrace both gentle tenderness and uninhibited sexual freedom in their connections and relationships. This isn’t about choosing one or the other; it’s about weaving them together into a powerful, authentic whole.

 

I offer tantric guidance and mentorship to men, women and couples, helping them drop in deeper, explore their edges, reignite intimacy and sexual desire through embodiment through sacred practices, inner exploration, and transformative rituals.

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A Defining Moment

I remember the date 8th August 2021, I was with some friends down at a secret cave in Ibiza. We lit a fire, drank some cacao overlooking the water as the stars beamed above us and waves crashed in front of us. 

I made a choice that night. I chose myself.

 

Even though I knew that could mean losing my partner. I set a very clear intention. INTIMACY. First and foremost with myself. I knew for me to have the relationship I wanted, it had to start with the relationship with myself. 

I cannot express enough the power of intention and owning your desires. When you choose yourself wholeheartedly you set the wheels of your desire in motion. Whether that be your intimacy, self pleasure, sexual exploration, better communication with your partner or creating rituals together. You just have to choose. 

 

If you see something is missing, in your own life or in your relationship, it is your responsibility to change it. 

My Unique Approach

I LIVE FOR THIS WORK!

I am fully devoted to facilitating deeper more connected intimacy, healthy sexual expression, and expansive erotic aliveness. HOW LIFE SHOULD BE LIVED! I help you anchor into your body, cultivate safety and presence from which you can activate and harness your sexuality in a way that is connected, transformative and liberating. 

And above all, doing this deeply transformational work can be FUN!

I bring the silliness and playfulness, this powerful and serious work doesn't need to feel so serious. This is why you'll get results, this is why you'll keep coming back!

I combine various energy practices in Kinesiology, Reiki & IQM, as well as Taoist and Tantric practices, Breathwork, Meditation, Somatic Healing, Authentic Relating and many more delicious modalities to support you in your expansion. 

Having lived the pain of feeling so lonely for so long, knowing there was more, I am dedicated to this work because I've gone to the depth of Mordor to let the old version of me die, so I can be of service to your own sexual and spiritual growth. 

We are here to unite sex and spirit. 

Everything is possible.

AND MORE. 

SENSUAL EXPERIENCES &SEXUALITY TRAININGS 

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Dramatic Sunset

PRIVATE LUXURY RETREATS

TRANSFORMATIONAL BODYWORK

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TEMPLE NIGHTS

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POWERHOUSE COACHING

are you hungry to discover more?

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BOOK A CALL
WITH ME

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I suffered in my relationships for years. I felt profoundly alone and misunderstood. I was always searching for that deeper connection, and something felt missing, like there was more I hadn't yet discovered.

 

Sexually repressed for many many years, I felt ashamed to explore my sexuality like I wanted to. I chose partners I felt safe would never leave me yet who I didn’t really love.

When I finally opened my heart to love, I felt the most alive and seen I’d ever felt.

 

Yet in that relationship, I lost myself. And so our passion & intimacy became non existent. I turned to food for pleasure & struggled with chronic digestive problems, insomnia & body pain. 

 

What started as the most passionate exciting and connected sexual connection I'd ever had, somehow became awkward, disconnected and eventually non-existent. 

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CREATE THE SPACE FOR MORE
AUTHENTIC RELATIONSHIPS.

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